Fall FTX - VMI cadets will participate in fall field training exercises (Fall FTX) Friday, Oct. 10 through Sunday, Oct. 12. Trainings will occur on post and McKethan Park, with brief congestion and night marches on the Chessie Nature Trail. Weapons training may be heard. Emergency vehicles will be on post for training purposes.

Speaking to a Cadet

Consider these suggestions for a direct conversation with a cadet:

  • Ask the cadet if you can schedule a one-on-one meeting.
  • Let someone else in your department or office know about the scheduled meeting so they can be available if necessary.
  • Tell the cadet what behaviors you have noticed that have you concerned, and express concern about them. ("I've noticed you've missed class three times in the past two weeks.")
  • Avoid "why" questions, which may be perceived as judgmental.
  • Ask open-ended questions. ("Tell me a bit more about how things are going for you this semester: What's been difficult? Satisfying...")
  • Listen to the cadet's response. You need not be scared off by an emotional response. Talking about a problem, or labeling a crisis, does not make it worse. It is the first step toward resolving it. Be patient. Don't give up if the cadet doesn't talk easily.
  • Allow the cadet to tell his/her story. Allow silences if they occur. Sometimes what follows can be especially productive.
  • Restate what you have heard so that the cadet will know you understand.
  • Suggest resources and offer hope
  • Encourage the cadet to utilize available resources (dyke, CCC, academic advisor, chaplain services, etc.)
  • Convey to the cadet that asking for help is a sign of strength.
  • Suggest a "one time" visit to speak with a counselor at the CCC.
  • Call the CCC, for consultation and advice about next steps.